How do you Become a Fairy Godmother? November 19, 2007
Unlike what you see in the movies and story books the heroine doesn’t always need to be rescued by the prince or anyone else. In fact, she can decide to go out and manifest the wishes, dreams, and desires she has on her own. She can make herself a priority and love those around her, but love herself enough to live her life on her terms. Interstingly enough, I found myself in just such a situation. I decided that I was done waiting for someone to save the day for me and instead I would go out there and make the pains I had gone through be my Happy Beginning! The day I stood up, dusted myself off and moved in the direction of my dream I became my OWN Fairy Godmother. So, wanna join me?
Yipee! It’s my introduction to the world of blogging! As my OWN Fairy Godmother I decided that to create my reality to surpass my dreams, I must dream big. And that is not a problem for me. Is it for you?
Many times we have dreams that we didn’t create for yourself. You know, the dreams of big houses, fancy cars, lots of diamonds, and cash just lying around. While all of these things are nice and can make your life enjoyable, who created these dreams? I say that these aren’t dreams but the status of the society we live in to say, “You’ve arrived”!
But what if “arriving” to you means that you get home before 4 in the afternoon so you can spend some quality time with your kids and family? What if “arriving” to you is traveling to places you want to see before you leave this earth? Or what if “arriving” to you is making sure that when you lay your head down on the pillow at night, you feel peaceful?
I believe that we need a shake up of our ideal of what success is! Too often we live our lives by what others or society has deemed success and that may not be the thing that truly makes us happy. I see a lot of unhappy seemingly successful people in this world. Why is that?
I think it is becuase trying to live up to anyone else’s ideal of your life is not only impossible, but completely debilitating at some point in your life. Sure, you can keep up the facade, but you body, mind, and spirit will break down at some point and make you face your “arriving”!
So why not look at that ideal now? Fairy Godmother’s are the ones that determine that THEY know wha tsuccess is to them and then live their life accordingly. These Fairy Godmothers, of which I am one of, spend their days humming at the joy they feel inside. Why? Because they threw out the guidelines of “arriving” and wrote their own success plan. What a conept, eh? We can determine our bliss, truth, and success! Let’s try that and see if it works better because the old ideal of “arriving” is killing a lot of people in small and significant ways.
So wave your wand and begin the process. Start with bucking the system. Creating your own dreams of success. And then going out and living the life you want watching those dreams y ou wrote down start pouring in. Yes, it’s that easy. Wanna try?
Have a nice day !